As the people we love get older, the risk that they’ll suffer from Alzheimer’s or another dementia increases. More than 6 million Americans over the age of 65 have some form of dementia, and researchers predict that the number of new cases diagnosed annually will double by 2060. [SOURCE: National Institutes of Health]
Forgetfulness and confusion can be symptoms, but there are other signs to watch out for as well. Read about them here.
If you suspect that someone close to you may be experiencing cognitive decline, it’s time for a conversation. Having a conversation is especially important if you are the person’s caregiver or may become involved in their care in the future. You’ll want to have your loved one evaluated by their doctor, who can provide tests, offer a diagnosis, and discuss options.
The Alzheimer’s Society (UK) offers the following tips for speaking with someone when you are concerned that they may have dementia:
- Pick a place that is familiar and comfortable
- Choose a time when you won’t be rushed or interrupted
- Choose the words you use carefully
- Be positive
- Listen
[SOURCE: Alzheimer’s Society]
You might begin the conversation by asking your loved one if they have been feeling differently or if they’ve noticed any changes in themselves. When you describe what you’ve observed, use reassuring and non-judgmental language. Let them know you love them and are concerned but avoid saying that you are worried that they might have dementia or Alzheimer’s. This could confuse or frighten them. Be respectful and patient. Don’t be surprised or offended if your loved one dismisses your concerns or if they respond with annoyance. Accept that it may take time and more than one conversation before they are ready to seek help. And remember to practice your own self-care so that you can best support those you love.
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